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You Don’t Need a House, a Partner, or a Social Circle to Matter
We live in a world that often measures worth by milestones: owning a home, being in a relationship, having a bustling social life. These things are beautiful, yes — but they are not the only markers of value. And they certainly don’t define a person’s significance. So let me say this loud and clear: Just because I don’t have my own house, or a girlfriend, or friends doesn’t mean I don’t matter. I am not a checklist. I am not a timeline. I am not a comparison. I am a person. A

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10 hours ago2 min read


The Myth of Toughness: Why Growing Up Poor Doesn’t Automatically Make You Tough
Growing up in a financially disadvantaged environment is often perceived as a rite of passage that builds toughness and resilience. Many believe that financial hardship inherently shapes individuals into strong, unyielding characters, ready to face the world. However, this notion is misleading. The connection between poverty and resilience is not straightforward. It's important to unpack what resilience truly means and how it differs from simply enduring hardship. Understandi

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3 days ago4 min read


Speculation, Curiosity, and the Power of “Maybe”
Exploring why curiosity about your sexuality feels intriguing rather than invasive.

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4 days ago1 min read


Is It Okay That I Don’t Have Any Friends?
Let’s start with the short answer: yes, it’s okay. Not having friends—whether temporarily or long-term—isn’t a moral failure, a sign of brokenness, or something that needs to be “fixed” immediately. It’s a reality many people experience at different points in life, and it can stem from a wide range of reasons, many of which are valid and deeply personal. 🧠 Why You Might Not Have Friends Right Now Here are a few possibilities, none of which reflect poorly on you: • You’re in

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4 days ago2 min read
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