We live in a world that often measures worth by milestones: owning a home, being in a relationship, having a bustling social life. These things are beautiful, yes — but they are not the only markers of value. And they certainly don’t define a person’s significance. So let me say this loud and clear: Just because I don’t have my own house, or a girlfriend, or friends doesn’t mean I don’t matter. I am not a checklist. I am not a timeline. I am not a comparison. I am a person. A

Let’s start with the short answer: yes, it’s okay. Not having friends—whether temporarily or long-term—isn’t a moral failure, a sign of brokenness, or something that needs to be “fixed” immediately. It’s a reality many people experience at different points in life, and it can stem from a wide range of reasons, many of which are valid and deeply personal. 🧠 Why You Might Not Have Friends Right Now Here are a few possibilities, none of which reflect poorly on you: • You’re in