Stop Assuming Bisexuality Means “Available to All Men”

🚫 The Harmful Assumption

Let’s get one thing clear: being bisexual does not mean I’m open to sleeping with every man who crosses my path. I’m tired of the assumption — the misguided, offensive, and frankly exhausting idea — that my sexuality somehow translates to indiscriminate availability.

Bisexuality means I’m attracted to more than one gender. It does not mean I lack standards, boundaries, or the ability to say no. It does not mean I’m constantly seeking attention, validation, or hookups. And it certainly doesn’t mean I’m interested in every guy who thinks he’s entitled to me just because I happen to be attracted to men and women.

This stereotype is not just annoying — it’s harmful. It reduces bisexual people to caricatures, erases our individuality, and perpetuates the idea that our sexuality exists for someone else’s pleasure or convenience. It’s rooted in ignorance and entitlement, and it needs to stop.

I’m allowed to be bisexual and selective. I’m allowed to have preferences, boundaries, and self-respect. My sexuality is not a green light for anyone to assume access to my body or attention. If you think otherwise, you’re not just wrong — you’re part of the problem.

So next time you meet someone who’s bisexual, try this radical approach: treat them like a whole person. Ask questions. Listen. Respect their boundaries. And most importantly, stop assuming that their identity is an invitation.